Tag: health

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Continuing Consent

It was pointed out to me yesterday that I have known my darling S for 14 years. Also S. had never been in a dedicated BDSM relationship so I went in to teach Him a lot and in fact I leaned more. He just knew what He wanted from a relationship and He helped me to find myself in all of it

Blue Trees

here is a terrible disease of gum trees in Australia called die back and it is a growing problem in the Australian bush. The remnants stand as silent grey sentinels as monuments to what we are losing. One day I was given this picture of a dead tree with die back and the stark contrast of the bright blue made it stand out from it’s surrounding. 

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Disabilities and BDSM

I am home from hospital which is really great. Now I begin recovering in earnest. I got a touch of pneumonia while there, which delayed things no end. Part of my recovery was to charge around the nurses station in my wheel chair which I did with as much gusto as I could muster. I terrorised the nurses!

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This is an Official Update

I have had a few people show a bit of concern in my lack of posting. I am still in hospital. I had the brain tumour removed successfully but a blood clot formed and again I had to have that removed. That has knocked me about. I am not terribly keen on having holes drilled in my head.

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Update

This is an update about me and the reason I have not been posting. Yes, I was very depressed but there was something else going on. I was having blinding headaches and they were worse than my normal migraines. I have injections of Botox to stop them but instead they were getting worse.

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Rope Bondage Gallery

As I have said I adore rope bondage and I thought I would show you some of the forms they can take. I must caution you, these pictures do not show the quick release knots in them so they can be undone very quickly should there be a problem. There are many books you can buy about Kinbaku and also watch clips on You Tube.

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Landmines

I said in a previous post about putting more funny things in the blog to make it more fun so I thought I would write a piece on comparing stereotypical lifestyle dynamics versus real life. Please remember this is funny but has a pretty serious tone to it.

The Beginning

I have spoken about S. not being my first BDSM lover and I have also spoken about my first Master. However, I have not really mentioned much about how S. and I met and what happened between us. We met in a chatroom and I think it was one for younger women wanting to find older men. S. had no idea what chatroom he was in.

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Thoughts From The Other Side

Well this may be a great shock to most of you, kitten has taken the day off, what she doesn’t know is I’m posting. Yes, she thinks I’m off doing something, you know guy related. I read something today and it was a comment on a friend of ours post. Her husband was apologising about not catching on quickly enough, not noticing right away. I don’t personally know this man, but I’ve heard enough stories to know him to be a good man, a caring, loving man. I got to thinking about being a Dom and how hard we can be on ourselves sometimes, ok all the time.

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Piercings

This is a subject close to my heart because before my cancer I had quite a few myself. They all had to be removed because of the radiology treatments and if I got an infection it would be hard to fight it. I would not have liked to have lost a nipple because my piercing got infected, not to mention my clitoris.

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Staying Positive

I have been thinking about what I wanted to write about and it has been a while since I last posted anything, sorry about that. S. Suggested about writing about staying positive and it sort of mish-mashed in with a few ideas, which I am going to put in this post.

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Trauma Trigger warning

I have read so many posts about people that have suffered a sexual assault in their lives. There are a number that happen in the BDSM realm. My own happened when I was fourteen, long before I entered the lifestyle.

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