Tag: basics

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New Listed Tools

A list of basic tools for the beginning relationship.

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How to Set Guidelines

A lot of lifestyle relationships has a list of guidelines set for the bottom and also for Tops. I say a guidelines because to me they are guidelines not intractable rules. I don’t like something that restricts me from being me. I don’t mind sharing a few things that I have but I won’t publish all of the guidelines as they are deeply personal. What I will do is offer a few suggestions that might make your own lists.

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Time to talk Tops

Most of the posts I write in here are slanted towards the submissive but I want to dedicate this page just to them the Tops.

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Psychological Mind Fucks

The games we like to play.

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Balance

This is a more difficult subject to quantify but I will do my best without ballsing it up, I hope. The one of the biggest things that is not spoken about often, is finding the balance you need in your lives. Not so much your day to day lives but your kinky life.

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Safe Words and Gestures

I know I have spoken about safety protocols in previous posts but I want to have a post just about safe words and gestures as I think they are some of the most important things in any BDSM. relationships.

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Limits

These are about hard and soft limits and can be the most important thing you start with.

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Masochism

Machoism and the varying stages of it.

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Never let…

These are words of advice I sort have chosen for myself to keep me safe. They are simple really but they are mine. Take the time to look at some for yourself.

Le Blog du Maître

Exploring the sensual, caring side of BDSM, one stroke at a time

Purple's Gem

Married Dominant and submissive lifestyle

Unicorn Hunting

Threesomes, Swinging and Kink: Navigating the London Sex Scene and Finding Utopia

Sir'sbutterfly blog

#submissive #beautifuldisaster #life #love #freedom #bdsm #Dom

muddled musings of a mangled mind

Poems and things that connect with me....

phoems thoughts about life

Life, love, books and all the rest

littlesubmissive

The journey of a submissive.

collaredmichaelwordpresscom

This site is about my journey into male chastity. I hope to be brutally honest and perhaps helpful to others wanting to try the same thing.

my controlled ascent

living and loving as a married submissive in my D/s marriage

J R Vincente

Erotica Writer

Wriggly Kitty

Kinky with Vanilla Sprinkles. Polyamorous Overthinker. 18+ Only. NSFW.

theinnerwildkat

Passions For Books, Writing and Music-however it manifests itself

ALPHA & kat

A Loving Couple's D/s Lifestyle

HisLordshipUK

Dominant and Submissive Writing

Eve's Temptations

The greatest WordPress.com site in all the land!

Jerusalem Mortimer: Between the Lines

Jerusalem Mortimer wants a word

mspeachierocks

femdom/adult writings

Penny's Dirty Thoughts

Penny's blog of sex related writing and photography

Masters Pleasing Bitch

this girl's journey to become the slave her Master desires

A Dissolute Life Means...

Indifferent to moral restraints; given to immoral or improper conduct; licentious; dissipated :: Synonyms: corrupt, loose, debauched, wanton, abandoned.

Knkstriped

Home of Zebra Rose’s Creative Works

nijntje's Babadook

Life ... and moving forward

Musings of Libby

eclectic observances and thoughts

Frannys secrets

strange what desire makes foolish people do ;-)

Life of Violet

A 20-something girl in a romantic, kinky world. Rated 18+

E T Costello

Romance, erotica, weird fiction

Sweetgirl’sjournal

My journey as a submissive wife

rushmorejudd

Warning: Erotic Themes

Dirty Little Love: Mini love scenes for the wicked

This WordPress.com site is the cat’s pajamas

Domestic Discipline, Jenny style!

Unconventional journey to unimaginable fulfillment.

submissy

Married submissive: The love, the kink and the connection.

The wonderful world of witty

Balancing kink, college, and family life

Days and Symes

N.S.F.W. Nasty Smutty Filthy Writing: Over 18 Only

the devil's in the details

I know what I like, and I like it a lot

Submissive Husband

Teased and Denied

sparkles journal

bdsm, Owned and collared, slave, submission, daily life, and life's reflections

Musings of a submissive masochist

Just another WordPress.com weblog

Submission & Dominance

Exploring the Worlds of Kink, Sex and Erotic Literature with Renarde. NSFW.

This is the story of a submissive female

This blog is about my life.

He named me Suri

A submissive's journey