Tag: basics

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New Listed Tools

A list of basic tools for the beginning relationship.

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How to Set Guidelines

A lot of lifestyle relationships has a list of guidelines set for the bottom and also for Tops. I say a guidelines because to me they are guidelines not intractable rules. I don’t like something that restricts me from being me. I don’t mind sharing a few things that I have but I won’t publish all of the guidelines as they are deeply personal. What I will do is offer a few suggestions that might make your own lists.

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Time to talk Tops

Most of the posts I write in here are slanted towards the submissive but I want to dedicate this page just to them the Tops.

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Psychological Mind Fucks

The games we like to play.

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Balance

This is a more difficult subject to quantify but I will do my best without ballsing it up, I hope. The one of the biggest things that is not spoken about often, is finding the balance you need in your lives. Not so much your day to day lives but your kinky life.

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Safe Words and Gestures

I know I have spoken about safety protocols in previous posts but I want to have a post just about safe words and gestures as I think they are some of the most important things in any BDSM. relationships.

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Limits

These are about hard and soft limits and can be the most important thing you start with.

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Masochism

Machoism and the varying stages of it.

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Never let…

These are words of advice I sort have chosen for myself to keep me safe. They are simple really but they are mine. Take the time to look at some for yourself.

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What Am I?

Looking inside for answers

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For Prospective Dominants

Some of the tips you might like to know.

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Anal Sex

Ok people don’t choke or panic, we have arrived at one of the things that a lot of people baulk at. Putting your mind at ease anal sex can be really enjoyable. NEVER LET ANYONE FORCE OR MANIPULATE YOU INTO DOING THIS  If you have never indulged in this practice then you will have questions. Does it hurt? Is it dirty? Will it make … Read More Anal Sex

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