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Violence is such an ugly word and like the act of saying the word tastes ugly on your tongue. Violence against men, women and even children is wrong no matter how you look at it and without exception it is wrong.


New Year Resolutions

This list is of the New Year’s resolutions I will never make as previous years sees me keeping them for maybe a week then giving them up one by one. This makes me feel like shit so I am not going to do it.


Feminism in BDSM

Feminism in BDSM might sound as if there is a conflict between them but I feel as if they can compliment each other. It also depends on what you feel feminism actually is.



Picture S. and I laying on the sofa, entwined in each other and my head is on his chest. It was a quiet moment, a still moment in time. We were in a reflective mood and we began talking about how our relationship got to be so strong. I have not loved a man the way I love S. and we talked about why things sit so comfortably with us.


What to Buy For the Dom Who Has Everything

What do you buy for the Dominant that has everything for a Christmas present? It is never easy and I often wrack my brain for something original. I mean you have to be observant and watch them through the months leading up to Christmas or their birthday. You also need to be stealthy. I am hopeless at keeping secrets and usually cave under pressure. I am improving and so is S. he doesn’t put so much pressure on me.


The Other Side of Christmas

ust as it is a true thing to say Christmas is fun, there is the other side of the coin and to some people it can be the saddest or loneliest of times. It is to those of you that I am speaking to.


The Silly Season

I am not sure how many of you know I am from Australia but I moved to the US to be with my darling S. It was a big decision to make but one I thought well worth effort. He has a lot of family and I brought mine with me. I just didn’t have the roots there that he does here.


Expectations vs Reality

When a new relationship forms or an established relationship changes we all have expectations of what we want. When that relationship concerns B.D.S.M. you will have preconceived ideas. I mean why would you want it if you didn’t have any ideas of what you find erotic.



The idea of tickling to most people sounds like fun and you might dissolve into giggles. Try to imagine if you were tied up and someone tickled you, there would be no way to stop them. Prolonged tickling can even become painful. Would it still be fun?

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#submissive #beautifuldisaster #life #love #freedom #bdsm #Dom

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Poems and things that connect with me....

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Life, love, books and all the rest


The journey of a submissive.


This site is about my journey into male chastity. I hope to be brutally honest and perhaps helpful to others wanting to try the same thing.

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The greatest site in all the land!

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Jerusalem Mortimer wants a word


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Penny's blog of sex related writing and photography

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Indifferent to moral restraints; given to immoral or improper conduct; licentious; dissipated :: Synonyms: corrupt, loose, debauched, wanton, abandoned.


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Life ... and moving forward

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eclectic observances and thoughts

Frannys secrets

strange what desire makes foolish people do ;-)

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A 20-something girl in a romantic, kinky world. Rated 18+

E T Costello

Romance, erotica, weird fiction


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Warning: Erotic Themes

Dirty Little Love: Mini love scenes for the wicked

This site is the cat’s pajamas

Domestic Discipline, Jenny style!

Unconventional journey to unimaginable fulfillment.


Married submissive: The love, the kink and the connection.

The wonderful world of witty

Balancing kink, college, and family life

Days and Symes

N.S.F.W. Nasty Smutty Filthy Writing: Over 18 Only

the devil's in the details

I know what I like, and I like it a lot

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Teased and Denied

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bdsm, Owned and collared, slave, submission, daily life, and life's reflections

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Just another weblog

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Exploring the Worlds of Kink, Sex and Erotic Literature with Renarde. NSFW.

This is the story of a submissive female

This blog is about my life.

He named me Suri

A submissive's journey