Category: mental wellbeing

Blue Trees

here is a terrible disease of gum trees in Australia called die back and it is a growing problem in the Australian bush. The remnants stand as silent grey sentinels as monuments to what we are losing. One day I was given this picture of a dead tree with die back and the stark contrast of the bright blue made it stand out from it’s surrounding. 



This is a little note to my readers to let you know I have not been posting much and I am not sure how long this will last. I am feeling depressed and just need to step back for a few days so I can work on getting better. It is not easy thinking of fun sexy things when your happy mind is sleeping. … Read More Depression



⚠️The subject of sexual assault can be a trigger from some of us, if that is the case please do not continue reading. ⚠️
However, I do feel that we should talk about it if we can and to be supportive in the movement on social media by using their hashtag – #SAAM.


Wicked Wednesday

For those of you that don’t know me, I have Bipolar, depression effective. Which means I have shifting moods and though I can get real highs I normally have terrible lows that sometimes require a great deal of work to get through.


Staying Positive

I have been thinking about what I wanted to write about and it has been a while since I last posted anything, sorry about that. S. Suggested about writing about staying positive and it sort of mish-mashed in with a few ideas, which I am going to put in this post.


Trauma Trigger warning

I have read so many posts about people that have suffered a sexual assault in their lives. There are a number that happen in the BDSM realm. My own happened when I was fourteen, long before I entered the lifestyle.


Protect Yourself

I am not sure if anyone noticed that my posts stopped for a while and there is a very good reason. My head became a little unravelled and I took time out for two reasons. One was that I didn’t want my crap finding it’s way in here because this is a very important place for me. Two is because I needed to find a quiet space to sort myself out.

The Black Dog

I have just watched a movie on Netflix called Hannah Gadsby: Nanette. It’s about a comedian from Tasmania called Hannah Gadsby and it is one of the best comedy shows I have ever seen. Hannah is gay and rather masculine looking but the thing that shines through is her humanity. She is quitting comedy but you need to watch the documentary.


Strip it Down

This has nothing to do with taking your clothes off. More to do with your mind which can fill you with fear, guilt, and lack of confidence. This is about before you take your clothes off.


Mental Illness and the Lifestyle

This is a subject I feel passionately about as it has been a part of my journey. I read a post by nijntje from nijntje & The Bear  about mental illness called Give me wings to fly. and it prompted me to write  this. I want to also say that I am not a professional councillor and if you think you have a mental … Read More Mental Illness and the Lifestyle


Trigger Warnings

I have used the notification Trigger Warning on a post. I also say what will follow like a consensual/non consensual scene. I do that to warn people who suffer from PTSD over some situations and I do not want to trigger pain for my readers. It is important that you can navigate throughout this blog without finding things that may push you over the … Read More Trigger Warnings


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