Category: BDSM Information

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Whips and Crops and Canes Oh My!

I read a post by Brigit Writes about her experiences with pain. It is a very good post so give it a read.

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Rope Bondage Gallery

As I have said I adore rope bondage and I thought I would show you some of the forms they can take. I must caution you, these pictures do not show the quick release knots in them so they can be undone very quickly should there be a problem. There are many books you can buy about Kinbaku and also watch clips on You Tube.

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Thoughtfulness

I don’t think I have ever read a post about this subject, thoughtfulness. What does it mean to you within the lifestyle? What does it mean for you partner?
Thoughtfulness is simply – thoughtful and considered attention, careful deliberation before action.

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Landmines

I said in a previous post about putting more funny things in the blog to make it more fun so I thought I would write a piece on comparing stereotypical lifestyle dynamics versus real life. Please remember this is funny but has a pretty serious tone to it.

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RED 10

Yes this is another post about a safe word but this was spoken completely outside of any scene. It is the first time in my life I had used one.

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Consent

⚠️The subject of sexual assault can be a trigger from some of us, if that is the case please do not continue reading. ⚠️
However, I do feel that we should talk about it if we can and to be supportive in the movement on social media by using their hashtag – #SAAM.

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Observation Part 2

I wrote a post about Observation a long while ago but I wanted to tell you about a different aspect of the subject. While my darling S. were talking this evening we stumbled onto another type of observation. He wrote a post for Sex Bloggers for Mental Health about Alcoholism. It was a subject he feels passionately about and I think that shows.

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Sex Bloggers for Mental Health.

Toxic masculinity is a narrow and repressive description of manhood, designating manhood as defined by violence, sex, status, and aggression. It’s the cultural ideal of manliness, where strength is everything while emotions are a weakness; where sex and brutality are yardsticks by which men are measured, while supposedly “feminine” traits—which can range from emotional vulnerability to simply not being hypersexual—are the means by which your status as “man” can be taken away.

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Things to watch out for in a new BDSM relationship

This is the type of page I would have loved to read the first time I got into a BDSM relationship. Unfortunately there was nothing like this.

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Oral Sex Project

I find this difficult to talk about. I mean I love sucking cock, more than you can imagine. I put my all into it and I practiced a lot to get better at it. I know my darling S. appreciates my mouth.

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Food for Thought

I guess this could apply to many things, death, uncertainty about something, or about losing something like a necklace.

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Lingerie is for Everyone

I own quite a few corsets from little lacy ones that are purely for show right down to strict control corsets that can be used in bondage.

Sir and kittens Pleasure Place

A Safe Journey Through B.D.S.M.

Love, Violet

Facts, Fictions & Sensual Self Portraiture

Kink of the Week

What's Your Kink?

Brigit Writes

Stories Matter. What's yours?

A Leap of Faith

A walk in the shoes of the barefoot sub

Forbidden Writings

Give form to every feeling, expression to every thought, reality to every dream

Wicked Wednesday

Be wickedly sexy or sexily wicked!

Bsquaredville

Writer of erotic pieces to varying degrees.

His.minnie

My journey as a submissive

TMI Tuesday blog

A confessional where people come to reveal too much information--sexy secrets, dirty deeds, and more.

Tell Me About ...

Tell Me About ... Dominance and submission

Singledust

Living on the equator but longing for snow

Gentleman's Relish

Best served hot

Purple's Gem

PurpleSole and littlegem- Dominant and submissive lifestyle

Unicorn Hunting

Threesomes, Swinging & Kink: Utopia?

Sir'sbutterfly blog

#submissive #beautifuldisaster #life #love #freedom #bdsm #Dom

muddled musings of a mangled mind

Poems and things that connect with me....

phoems thoughts about life

Life, love, books and all the rest

littlesubmissive

The journey of a submissive.

collaredmichaelwordpresscom

This site is about my journey into male chastity. I hope to be brutally honest and perhaps helpful to others wanting to try the same thing.

my controlled ascent

living and loving as a married submissive in my D/s marriage

J R Vincente

Erotica Writer

Wriggly Kitty

Kinky with Vanilla Sprinkles. Polyamorous Overthinker. 18+ Only. NSFW.

theinnerwildkat

Passions For Books, Writing and Music-however it manifests itself

HisLordshipUK

Dominant and Submissive Writing

Eve's Temptations

The greatest WordPress.com site in all the land!

Jerusalem Mortimer: Between the Lines

Jerusalem Mortimer wants a word

mspeachierocks

femdom/adult writings

Penny's Dirty Thoughts

Penny's blog of sex related writing and photography

Masters Pleasing Bitch

this girl's journey to become the slave her Master desires

A Dissolute Life Means...

Indifferent to moral restraints; given to immoral or improper conduct; licentious; dissipated :: Synonyms: corrupt, loose, debauched, wanton, abandoned.

Knkstriped

Home of Zebra Rose’s Creative Works

nijntje's Babadook

Life ... and moving forward

Musings of Libby

eclectic observances and thoughts

Life of Violet

A 20-something girl in a sexy, kinky world. Rated 18+

E T Costello

Romance, erotica, weird fiction

Sweetgirls Journal

Our Journey as a Dominant & Submissive Couple

rushmorejudd

Warning: Erotic Themes

Dirty Little Love: Mini love scenes for the wicked

This WordPress.com site is the cat’s pajamas