Month: April 2019



This is a little note to my readers to let you know I have not been posting much and I am not sure how long this will last. I am feeling depressed and just need to step back for a few days so I can work on getting better. It is not easy thinking of fun sexy things when your happy mind is sleeping. … Read More Depression


Whips and Crops and Canes Oh My!

I read a post by Brigit Writes about her experiences with pain. It is a very good post so give it a read.


Rope Bondage Gallery

As I have said I adore rope bondage and I thought I would show you some of the forms they can take. I must caution you, these pictures do not show the quick release knots in them so they can be undone very quickly should there be a problem. There are many books you can buy about Kinbaku and also watch clips on You Tube.



I don’t think I have ever read a post about this subject, thoughtfulness. What does it mean to you within the lifestyle? What does it mean for you partner?
Thoughtfulness is simply – thoughtful and considered attention, careful deliberation before action.


My New Best Friend

I am so excited because darling S. finished my surprise. I just wanted to share it with you.



I said in a previous post about putting more funny things in the blog to make it more fun so I thought I would write a piece on comparing stereotypical lifestyle dynamics versus real life. Please remember this is funny but has a pretty serious tone to it.


A Picture Paints a Thousand Words.

Posting a great number of erotic pictures of me makes me very uncomfortable but I do love a really hot erotic photograph. It inspires me to write about them and in a way they become prompts. What I love is implied eroticism not overt sexuality. I had an idea to try something new and open this up to you. I will post three pictures and if you would like to join in please do. I will write my little stories too and you can consider what your reactions are like compared with mine. It is amazing how many stories can come from the one picture.


RED 10

Yes this is another post about a safe word but this was spoken completely outside of any scene. It is the first time in my life I had used one.


Taking a break from meme’s

Over the last few weeks there have been some very serious questions from different meme’s I enjoy. I have touched on some very serious subjects that are emotional and some just plain horrifying. Please don’t get me wrong I felt some of them needed to be answered and I did my best to stay true to myself. My Darling S. feels the same way.


EJC – Wishes

If I were to wish for something sexy it would be for ten first class cow hides and ten first class kangaroo hides. Doesn’t sound very sexy does it? However magic can come from those.


TMI Tuesday

1. Did leave your last love for some one else or no one else?
Hard to answer this because my first master died.
2. Do you enjoy being alone? Yes or No
I enjoy time alone if that is what you mean.


Do you ever…?

Do you ever look at this world and have your eyes over stimulated by the glory of it’s colour? Well I feel like that at times. I wish I had a dimmer switch where I could tone down everything to black and white and shades of grey so it didn’t overwhelm my senses.


a peek into the life of a married submissive

Sir and kittens Pleasure Place

A Safe Journey Through B.D.S.M.

Love, Violet

erotica | personal essays | photography

Kink of the Week

What's Your Kink?

Brigit Writes

Stories Matter. What's yours?

A Leap of Faith

A walk in the shoes of the barefoot sub

Forbidden Writings

Give form to every feeling, expression to every thought, reality to every dream

Wicked Wednesday

Be wickedly sexy or sexily wicked!


Writer of erotic pieces to varying degrees.


My journey as a submissive

TMI Tuesday blog

A confessional where people come to reveal too much information--sexy secrets, dirty deeds, and more.

Tell Me About ...

Tell Me About ... Dominance and submission

Gentleman's Relish

Best served hot

Purple's Gem

PurpleSole and littlegem- Dominant and submissive lifestyle

Unicorn Hunting

Threesomes, Swinging & Kink: Utopia?

Sir'sbutterfly blog

#submissive #beautifuldisaster #life #love #freedom #bdsm #Dom

muddled musings of a mangled mind

Poems and things that connect with me....

phoems thoughts about life

Life, love, books and all the rest


The journey of a submissive.


This site is about my journey into male chastity. I hope to be brutally honest and perhaps helpful to others wanting to try the same thing.

my controlled ascent

living and loving as a married submissive in my D/s marriage

J R Vincente

Erotica Writer

Wriggly Kitty

Kinky with Vanilla Sprinkles. Polyamorous Overthinker. 18+ Only. NSFW.


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Dominant and Submissive Writing

Eve's Temptations

The greatest site in all the land!

Jerusalem Mortimer: Between the Lines

Jerusalem Mortimer wants a word


femdom/adult writings

Penny's Dirty Thoughts

Penny's blog of sex related writing and photography

Masters Pleasing Bitch

this girl's journey to become the slave her Master desires

A Dissolute Life Means...

Indifferent to moral restraints; given to immoral or improper conduct; licentious; dissipated :: Synonyms: corrupt, loose, debauched, wanton, abandoned.


Home of Zebra Rose’s Creative Works

nijntje's Babadook

Life ... and moving forward

Musings of Libby

eclectic observances and thoughts

Life of Violet

A 20-something girl in a sexy, kinky world. Rated 18+

E T Costello

Romance, erotica, weird fiction

Sweetgirl's Journal

Our Journey as a Dominant & Submissive Couple


Warning: Erotic Themes