Sex dreams: many of us have had them at one time or another. Sometimes they involve a partner, sometimes a celebrity crush, sometimes a complete stranger and sometimes a “real-life” crush. Usually, all very well… perhaps innocent isn’t quite the word, but harmless fun. Sometimes, the object of our semi-somnolent desire can be extremely inappropriate, a colleague, an authority figure, a best friend or someone that the idea of just gives you shivers (and not the good kind).
So, this week, what we want to know is:
How regularly, if at all, does sex occur in your dreams?
Is there a recurring partner in these dreams?
Who is the most inappropriate person to have featured in a sex dream?
If you have had a sex dream about a friend, did you tell them? How did they react?
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I dream a great deal and I often dream about sex but it is nothing like the sex life I have now. It can be quite bizarre and with people I do not recognize. I occasionally have sex dreams about celebrities but never of the traditional heroes and good looking men or women. I once dreamed I had sex with Gandalf which was weird because you never fuck with Gandalf and Ian McClennen is gay. Just for one night he batted for the other team.
When young I had something awful happen to me and it was of a sexual attack and unfortunately I get recurring nightmares. They are awful and take me back to a place of pain.
However, I do have sexy dreams perhaps once a month. I always share them with my beloved S. and he takes notes ~ giggling ~. I love it when he is in them. They are sizzling and wonderful. I wake up from them so aroused it normally leads to sex with my darling man.
The strangest dream I ever had was one when it was all about the sensations of sex. I could feel every moment of it. I saw no one else. I was in complete blackness and I could feel hands on me but I wasn’t afraid. I could even feel a penis inside me. I was so aroused I began to orgasm and I woke up still cumming. And no my partner wasn’t touching me.
Dreams for me are just my brain trying to prosses information in a safe way. I don’t allot a great deal of thoughts of symbolism to them. Most sexual dreams for me are pleasant and fleeting. However I love it when they spill over to the real world.