Month: March 2019


Tell me about…

The prompt for this weeks prompt is.. Safe Words… I could sit down here and tell you all about the importance of a safe word AND gesture, and yes you need both. Imagine if you will, you’re going down on your lover and well he has filled your mouth and perhaps throat but you are having trouble with it you have to have some … Read More Tell me about…


The Erotic Journal Challenge

My star sign is Taurus and the five senses are so important to me. I am a tactile sensualist. Wow did I just create a new label? Bad kitty.


A Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing

To look at him he looks like so many other people. Nothing gives you the warning that he is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Now don’t be thinking this is something bad. I happen to think it is the best thing on Earth.


Food For Thought

I am like every person in the world and I have negative self talk. This particularly affects me the most. You know the little demon that keeps reminding you, you are not good enough, that you can’t do it or perhaps you will fail. Oh that little charmer is definitely in my head causing mayhem.


Anais Nin

I am a huge fan of Anais Nin a diarist and writer. She also wrote erotica. It is rumoured that she was into the lifestyle. I just lose myself in her wonderful quotes and I would love to share some with you. She had also written a few books you might want to read.


Me and Darling S.

This post was suggested by Nero Black after reading my TMI post about the long and winding road that is my relationship with my Darling S. so here goes. ~ taking a deep breath ~


Too Much Information Tuesday

1. When you have experienced sexual difficulty, how did you overcome it?


Sex Bloggers for Mental Health.

Toxic masculinity is a narrow and repressive description of manhood, designating manhood as defined by violence, sex, status, and aggression. It’s the cultural ideal of manliness, where strength is everything while emotions are a weakness; where sex and brutality are yardsticks by which men are measured, while supposedly “feminine” traits—which can range from emotional vulnerability to simply not being hypersexual—are the means by which your status as “man” can be taken away.


Things to watch out for in a new BDSM relationship

This is the type of page I would have loved to read the first time I got into a BDSM relationship. Unfortunately there was nothing like this.


Oral Sex Project

I find this difficult to talk about. I mean I love sucking cock, more than you can imagine. I put my all into it and I practiced a lot to get better at it. I know my darling S. appreciates my mouth.


Food for Thought

I guess this could apply to many things, death, uncertainty about something, or about losing something like a necklace.


The Erotic Journal Challenge

Firstly, I need you to know that when young I lived way out in the country, so I was home schooled. I was taught by School of the Air. I then had to submit my essays and homework. Therefore my education was sort of weird. Now of course we have computers and it is much better.


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A Leap of Faith

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Forbidden Writings

Give form to every feeling, expression to every thought, reality to every dream

Wicked Wednesday

Be wickedly sexy or sexily wicked!


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TMI Tuesday blog

A confessional where people come to reveal too much information--sexy secrets, dirty deeds, and more.

Tell Me About ...

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Poems and things that connect with me....

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Life, love, books and all the rest


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J R Vincente

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The greatest site in all the land!

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Jerusalem Mortimer wants a word


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Penny's blog of sex related writing and photography

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this girl's journey to become the slave her Master desires

A Dissolute Life Means...

Indifferent to moral restraints; given to immoral or improper conduct; licentious; dissipated :: Synonyms: corrupt, loose, debauched, wanton, abandoned.


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Life ... and moving forward

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eclectic observances and thoughts

Life of Violet

A 20-something girl in a sexy, kinky world. Rated 18+

E T Costello

Romance, erotica, weird fiction

Sweetgirls Journal

Our Journey as a Dominant & Submissive Couple


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