Month: March 2019


Sex Bloggers for Mental Health.

Toxic masculinity is a narrow and repressive description of manhood, designating manhood as defined by violence, sex, status, and aggression. It’s the cultural ideal of manliness, where strength is everything while emotions are a weakness; where sex and brutality are yardsticks by which men are measured, while supposedly “feminine” traits—which can range from emotional vulnerability to simply not being hypersexual—are the means by which your status as “man” can be taken away.


Things to watch out for in a new BDSM relationship

This is the type of page I would have loved to read the first time I got into a BDSM relationship. Unfortunately there was nothing like this.


Oral Sex Project

I find this difficult to talk about. I mean I love sucking cock, more than you can imagine. I put my all into it and I practiced a lot to get better at it. I know my darling S. appreciates my mouth.


Food for Thought

I guess this could apply to many things, death, uncertainty about something, or about losing something like a necklace.


The Erotic Journal Challenge

Firstly, I need you to know that when young I lived way out in the country, so I was home schooled. I was taught by School of the Air. I then had to submit my essays and homework. Therefore my education was sort of weird. Now of course we have computers and it is much better.



Well as you all must be aware I have gone crazy writing Meme’s but by doing that I have not done a journal entry to say Hi! to everyone. I also miss doing it.


Lingerie is for Everyone

I own quite a few corsets from little lacy ones that are purely for show right down to strict control corsets that can be used in bondage.


TMI Tuesday

1. What qualities do you like and dislike about yourself?


SBMH – Awkward Moments Day.

I am also clumsy so if there is a crease in the air near the floor I will trip over it. However I don’t think that is what you are asking for so I will concentrate on times I say or do something to let myself down. When I was young I was always putting my foot in my mouth or I misunderstood what was asked of me. When I was learning about the lifestyle I sat in awe and some level of disbelief with a peppering of fear.


Tell Me About Bondage

He takes me down to the play room promising me something exciting. My heart is pounding. I can’t think of what it could be because everything we do in here is exciting. He unlocks the door and we walk in. My eyes dart everywhere looking for some clues but I can see is a large metal ring attached to the ceiling.


Erotic Journal Challenge

My first love was a much older man and he became my Master. I wish I could say it was a great relationship but it wasn’t. I felt I loved him and I didn’t have any experience in this new life. I was eighteen and had led a sheltered life. There was so much that I wish I had known back then.


Wicked Wednesday

Offer me your hand when we are in places where there are masses of people around us, knowing I find it difficult to be in crowds. You reinforce my courage.

Love, Violet

The NSFW musings and erotic photography of Violet Fawkes

Kink of the Week

What's Your Kink?

Brigit Writes

Stories Matter. What's yours?

A Leap of Faith

A walk in the shoes of the barefoot sub

Forbidden Writings

Give form to every feeling, expression to every thought, reality to every dream

Wicked Wednesday

Be wickedly sexy or sexily wicked!


Writer of erotic pieces to varying degrees.


My journey as a submissive

TMI Tuesday blog

A confessional where people come to reveal too much information--sexy secrets, dirty deeds, and more.

Tell Me About ...

Tell Me About ... Dominance and submission


Living on the equator but longing for snow

Le Blog du Maître

Exploring the sensual, caring side of BDSM, one stroke at a time

Purple's Gem

PurpleSole and littlegem- Dominant and submissive lifestyle

Unicorn Hunting

Threesomes, Swinging & Kink: Utopia?

Sir'sbutterfly blog

#submissive #beautifuldisaster #life #love #freedom #bdsm #Dom

muddled musings of a mangled mind

Poems and things that connect with me....

phoems thoughts about life

Life, love, books and all the rest


The journey of a submissive.


This site is about my journey into male chastity. I hope to be brutally honest and perhaps helpful to others wanting to try the same thing.

my controlled ascent

living and loving as a married submissive in my D/s marriage

J R Vincente

Erotica Writer

Wriggly Kitty

Kinky with Vanilla Sprinkles. Polyamorous Overthinker. 18+ Only. NSFW.


Passions For Books, Writing and Music-however it manifests itself

ALPHA & kat

A Loving Couple's D/s Lifestyle


Dominant and Submissive Writing

Eve's Temptations

The greatest site in all the land!

Jerusalem Mortimer: Between the Lines

Jerusalem Mortimer wants a word


femdom/adult writings

Penny's Dirty Thoughts

Penny's blog of sex related writing and photography

Masters Pleasing Bitch

this girl's journey to become the slave her Master desires

A Dissolute Life Means...

Indifferent to moral restraints; given to immoral or improper conduct; licentious; dissipated :: Synonyms: corrupt, loose, debauched, wanton, abandoned.


Home of Zebra Rose’s Creative Works

nijntje's Babadook

Life ... and moving forward

Musings of Libby

eclectic observances and thoughts

Life of Violet

A 20-something girl in a sexy, kinky world. Rated 18+

E T Costello

Romance, erotica, weird fiction

Sweetgirls Journal

Our Journey as a Dominant & Submissive Couple


Warning: Erotic Themes

Dirty Little Love: Mini love scenes for the wicked

This site is the cat’s pajamas