TMI Tuesday is up! Let’s go…write, post, read, comment. Go!
1. How do you spend most of your time?
This is hard because it depends on what I am doing so, sometime on my laptop writing, making erotic art on my PC or the most mundane, doing housework or cooking when I get the urge to bake. I enjoy shopping too but S. and I love to wonder around the malls.
2. Is this where you thought you would end up?
Never in my wildest dreams did I believe I would be here where I am now. I believe that if you never stop dreaming you will eventually get what you want.
3. What would you do differently if given the opportunity?
Nothing because what I have done has led me to this point in time and to S. If I changed anything I might not arrive at this place. I try to live my life with no regrets. I have overcome the challenges that made me stronger. Would I change the fact I had breast cancer? I don’t think so because it taught me so much about myself. Truly though, I am glad I don’t have the chance to change anything because it might be hard to walk away from.
4. How do you encourage creativity in the bedroom?
Really I don’t need to because S. and I are so connected and I am blessed because he has an amazing mind that thinks of so much kinky fuckery. I do however write a lot of erotica and sometimes I might think of something sexy to try and all I have to do is to ask S. about trying it. We never tire or become bored with each other. We sort of spark off each other and that fuels our love making.
5. Tell us something about yourself that might surprise us.
I am bi-sexual. I am with S. but there are times I crave the touch of a woman. I would never however, have a time without S. being there. He has assured me he wouldn’t mind but to me that is cheating. He has said that I could bring home a lady and have private time with her. So far we have not tested those waters. We might never do it but that is ok too.
Bonus: Sexually, who has influenced you the most?
This one is difficult to name just one. Firstly it is me. If I had not gone on a quest to find my true self, I would not be in this place. I think it takes a brave heart and an honesty that is sometimes difficult to keep up when things go wrong. When something catastrophic happens you have to decide if you want to keep trying. I did.
S. is the second one because when I thought I wanted something that was not healthy for me, he helped me understand that fact. He broke down the darker things I thought I wanted by saying he would find that difficult to do. He was tenacious and never gave up on me. Now we share something that is very healthy and strong. I can’t imagine him doing anything that would make me pull away. ~ unless he was a serial killer that is ~. I count my blessings everyday.
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