Tears are strange things. I mean yes crying can come from a place of pain or sadness but I am talking about the tears on my cheeks in a scene.

During a spanking I will I might cry but I can’t say it comes from those aforementioned reason. I don’t cry in pain. I can cry when I get emotionally over-wrought. I think everyone does that.

I am speaking about a spanking with either hand, paddle, brush or instruments like that. I can enjoy a strong spanking but the one by the hand to me is the most delicious because there is nothing between me and my darling S. To me a spanking is a gift, a most pleasurable one at that. As I lay across his lap, and the slaps rain down I can orgasm purely from the sensations…

So why do I cry?

The only way I can explain it is that the pleasure is so intense it fills me and it needs a way out. I am crying because the stinging bloom of heat on my flesh gathers in my erogenous zones and then radiates out to my extremities. Crying let’s it spill outward to tell my darling I am enjoying everything he is doing.

It is his reward if you like.

If I wear a non-waterproof mascara and it runs, it really turns S. on.

What do I do if I am finding the spanking too intense and I want it to end? Why, I use my safe word silly.

If I have had a wonderful spanking and I have cried it is like an emotional safety valve. Now remember I am not spanked where the sole aim is to cry or to get rid of tension. It is for enjoyment and the side effects of it are welcome. I don’t cry every time but when I do, I love it.

Next time you see a picture of a submissive with teared streaked faces recall my words or draw upon your own experiences.

S and K

6 Comments on “Tears On My Cheeks

  1. I often shed tears during a spanking / play session and like you consider it to be a release – from the stresses of normal life, and from the pain being inflicted. Great post xx

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  2. And that love is why I won’t spank you as a punishment it takes away that certain something from the whole experience. Love you love your writing

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    • I know why you don’t spank as a punishment and that whole grey area can get a bit murky. I love you so very much and I wouldn’t change the way you treat me. Your thoughtfulness runs through everything we do. I am such a very lucky girl to have you. I love you too darling. ❤ ❤ ❤

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  3. Thank you both for your kind comments. I have been doing a lot of soul searching lately and discovering these things about myself. It is an interesting journey and I believe the better you understand yourself the more fully you can enjoy your life and the person you share it with. I consider it to be good housekeeping. The more I understand myself the more I can give.

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  4. I’m so jealous. I love spankings, and it turns me on immensely, but I don’t get that emotional relief. (Which is extra funny because I cry at commercials!) Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. 🙂

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  5. Thank you for your kind words. ❤ ❤ ❤ I wish I could find my magic wand and fix that connection for you but alas I put it safe and I can't find the darn thing.

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