Well I thought I would keep you up to date about my darling S. We saw the specialist in the State University and she is sort of the top of her game. S’s. Gastro specialist sent him there.

He has a disease that stops the lower valve in his stomach from working. It causes sharp pain and also cramps. He very often can’t eat solid food at all and exists on Kefir, yogurt and Ensure. When he can eat it is only in very small portions, like perhaps the size of half of a bread and butter plate. He can’t eat fat, fibre or too much dairy.

I am speaking of a man that adores good food and cooking.

He is supposed to eat six small meals but it becomes very obvious when he is having a bad day. He eats nothing solid. I have gone on the same diet as him. As a diabetic this diet is great for me. However, I can eat the small meals no matter what.

He has days when he has cramps and he has days of horrible sharp pain and he can take nothing for that pain as it would make the stomach valve not working even worse.

The reason I have told you about all of this is because my darling S. He never complains and he tries very hard not to show how he is feeling. Even with the sharp pain he still lives normally. Only if it becomes diabolical does he take to his bed.

He is not bad tempered, moody or snappy and I am damned sure I could not be as good as he is. He is still romantic, loving and very sexy. Nothing seems to halt his very ingenious kinky fuckery. He always says I am sick not dead.

After the visit to the special specialist we have been given 3 choices but none of them are easy so he has to really think hard on this.

I feel so blessed to have this man in my life. His courage and strength is amazing. Despite all of this he still takes care of me and keeps me happy and secure.

He is my darling S. and I love him with all my heart.

S. and k.

6 Comments on “A Little More Information

  1. It shows through your writing how much you two care about each other. It’s so good that you have each other through the tougher parts!


  2. I’ve been looking for away to respond to this post all day, honestly How does a man who doesn’t like fanfare do it with a quiet grace. Katkinx showed me the way, I really have to give credit where it’s due. I am lucky to have you kitten and that’s the reason why it’s easier to get up and to go and do everyday. We will get this all sorted out love, after all its just a tummy ache right?

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    • Yes we will get through this and we will do it together. As long as we are together we will be ok. When you manage to find the perfect partner for life you can overcome it all. ❤ ❤ ❤


  3. I love how real you are, and how much of yourselves you share.

    I’m sorry that your S is having a tough time. I hope whichever option he chooses works well for him. ❤


    • When we started this blog we wanted to be as open and as real as we could so people could see how ‘we’ make it work. We never wanted to say ‘this’ is how to do it but how we do it and to do that we must be pretty open about it all. Thank you for your kind comments, we appreciate it. ❤ ❤ ❤

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