Well this may be a great shock to most of you, kitten has taken the day off, what she doesn’t know is I’m posting. Yes, she thinks I’m off doing something, you know guy related. I read something today and it was a comment on a friend of ours post. Her husband was apologising about not catching on quickly enough, not noticing right away. I don’t personally know this man, but I’ve heard enough stories to know him to be a good man, a caring, loving man. I got to thinking about being a Dom and how hard we can be on ourselves sometimes, ok all the time. I mean if we plan a play date in the woods it’s our fault if it rains isn’t it guys? That man was feeling guilty for missing some of his partner’s signs and I found my self agreeing with him whole heartedly. Then I thought on it a minute and decided you know we all miss things everyday, and it’s ok. It’s not what you miss it’s about what you do when you find out. I don’t mean apologizing over and over, but absorbing the information and making things better. Beating yourself up does no good, being attentive and changing direction does, communication does.
Being a dominant is hard. No one is perfect, and we shouldn’t strive for perfection just progression. That’s all I ever ask of kitten. She makes me happy simple by trying and I know I make her happy because I try that’s what makes us work. So that was my ramble. Now you see why I let kitten do the writing. You will now be returned to your regularly scheduled program…
This is kitten. My name appears as the author but that is simply because S. doesn’t know how to publish on here yet lol.