I am not sure if anyone noticed that my posts stopped for a while and there is a very good reason. My head became a little unravelled and I took time out for two reasons. One was that I didn’t want my crap finding it’s way in here because this is a very important place for me. Two is because I needed to find a quiet space to sort myself out.
It was a mood switch nothing more nothing less and I had to do my rescue actions to recover.
Firstly it is important for a submissive to know everyone has times like these.
It made me think about all of you submissive people that come in here. I wonder if you have rescues for yourself. Can you simply say to your partner, I need some time out for a few days? Do you even consider taking some time for yourself? This could be for mental fatigue, physical pain or just bad tiredness. A lot of subs will try very hard to power through it but that rarely helps.
I know that sometimes sub space can give you time out from your emotions but you can’t really rely on it to recharge your batteries.
It is time to talk to your partner. Explain your problem and simply ask for time ‘off’. Be honest about what is making you feel like you need time out.
This is important for you to keep yourself healthy not just to better serve your partner but to better serve yourself.
A healthy body and mind brings much good energy to the relationship and both parties will reap the rewards.
S. and K.
n.b. I hope you like the new type of artwork. It is a phase and it might change on a whim ~ wink ~`