I have spoken with Sir about this page and I had to think carefully about the kinds of kinks we discuss in here. There are some that I find difficult to speak of, not because they are nasty or bad or shameful. If it is between two consenting adults it is fine but they must research it carefully. However, somethings can alter the body in ways not expected.

There are realms that I know of but I am nervous of mentioning them as they have the potential to really harm a person or that those practices can cause dangerous damage on their bodies. So forgive me but I do not wish to talk about them. The whole purpose of this site is to offer advice about the lifestyle not to point you into direction of these activities. I will not speak of Pee or Scat either as for me they are things on my hard limits. Insertion of large things into your vagina and anus can also change a bottoms body and if you engage in it said parts will be stretched and will be less stimulating for a Top and we don’t want that. They can also cause prolapse. Blood sports can be dangerous so if it is your thing, your consent must be obtained. Now you begin to get into the really harsh things and as this is a site promoting safety I will not mention them. To me they are torture. I don’t mean to sound judgemental and if it is your desire I applaud your strength.

In your Dominant’s arms should be the safest place to be.


I am aware I have written about some harsh things in the levels of pain and about humiliation but that was to inform and to guide you to know what will be hard or soft limits. They are also a strong part of BDSM. What I am writing about now is not strictly about that lifestyle so I am not being a chicken. I have the full support of my Sir and he feels just as I do.

This really means something, have fun and stay safe. This is the aim of this blog.

Please stay safe and have fun


Sir and kitten





5 Comments on “Safety before Kinks

  1. We stopped play last evening due to safety concerns and had a good discussion. No repercussions and no hard feelings. As far as we’re concerned, that’s as it should be. ๐Ÿ™‚

    The body is a funny thing, you just never know what might happen. You need a dominant you can trust, always! ๐Ÿ˜€

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    • I have found that there are times a bottom might feel discomfort more intensely in their cycle I believe it can be the change in hormones but I am no doctor or expert it just is for me. Your Bear is very loving of you and long may it last. Tops like him are hard to find, not impossible just harder.

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