Masochism is the enjoyment of things like pain and humiliation. If your kink leans this way do not feel ‘bad’ about it as the world is full of people that share your desire. As long as your welfare is the key thing in the experience then explore it. Start slow and build up.
So you think you might enjoy pain or you know you do. As I have said in previous pages this covers such a wide field. It can be put into a sort of list.
- Mild. Very mild things that are by and large very pleasurable. They would be things that enhance the submission experience. However it would also be something that will leave you with the question … how would it feel with more?
- Medium. Something that could make you cry and cause you some stronger discomfort. It is a level of pain or discomfort that is pleasing but if done right you will still enjoy it.
- Strong. This is getting into the realms of harsher experiences. It can still be within the realms of a submissive’s desire. If you do not like pain, and I mean real pain, don’t go here unless you have experimented with a build up to this point. It will usually come with bouts of pleasure.
- Extreme. This is the uncomfortable area for me. You may not know that pain can be addictive to either the Top or bottom. There are people that enjoy it and I am not here to judge them. They have every right to indulge in these things as long as it is done in a positive manner. This site promotes safety and good health, so this treatment could go against safety and good health in my mind. The important thing about this is you are not a bad submissive or a bad Dominant if you will not go into the extreme area.
There is one important thing you BOTH must remember. YOU ARE NOT A BAD SUBMISSIVE IF YOU CAN’T DO EVEN THE LIGHTEST OF PAIN. BEING A SUBMISSIVE DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO ENDURE PAIN. IF THAT IS EVER SAID TO YOU, AND YOU HAVE MADE IT CLEAR FROM THE OUTSET YOU DO NOT WANT PAIN….LEAVE THAT PERSON AND DO NOT GO BACK!
All of these things should enhance your sexual adventure not become something you have to endure
Be safe and have fun
Sir and kitten
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